Domination doesn't have to be strict and harsh and overtly mean all the time to get the job done. You know this better than anyone, don't you? After all, what you're looking for is someone to take the reins in a sweetly sensual and controlling way that doesn't leave you feeling wrung out like a used sweat rag at the gym. You want to obey, and be good for your Mistress. And you want to feel cherished and valued, too.
Your submission is a gift that you give to your Mistress. Willing obedience isn't something to be taken for granted, assumed to be the default, or just expected all the time. Your willingness to kneel and obey is rooted in your own sense of self worth and desire to be taken care of. After all, if you were truly worthless and pathetic you wouldn't even put yourself forward at all, you'd never pick up the phone and ask to be dominated like this. You'd sit in the corner and cry about yourself instead.
Sensual domination isn't like all that porn online with women in leather outfits wielding riding crops and gigantic dildos. Don't get me wrong, I can wear leather and use a crop, just, for you I'll be sweet and gentle and soothe away the sting while I encourage you to let it all out. None of this weird yelling in a Dungeon Porn voice about "Obey! Submit!" You will obey, and you will submit, but I'm certainly not going to yell at you about it. You'll submit because you're a good slut for me and you want to make me happy.
I've always told people that I can do the whole Mean Scary Mistress thing, just it takes me a minute to rev up to it. I start out sensual and sweet, and then add more firmness as needed. I think you'll be very good for me, and won't even need me to be mean to you at all! I think you'll submit and obey and make me very proud of you. Don't you want to make me proud? Such a good and eager boy for me!
Don't be afraid of yourself and your desire to submit. I promise to take very good care of you, and to gently guide you towards what you really want and need. You'll be able to stop thinking, and simply obey my directions, all while knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that you can and will make me very proud and happy. I know you'll do a good job for me, because I can tell how much you want to be a good submissive! I can't wait to meet you and make you mine. by Ms. Delia of www.sensual-domination.com You may have a pre-conceived notion of what BDSM, or D/s is all about. No doubt that idea of what a “true” Femdom scene is all about has been colored by things you have read or porn you have watched. Perhaps your only exposure to Female Domination has been the whip wielding, leather wearing, stiletto boot stomping Domina. She yells and calls you pathetic and worthless, and any small misstep you make brings instant punishment. She never smiles, and might even approach the whole scene in a very clinical, distant sort of way. That’s what I call Hard Core Domination, and for some submissives, this is their idea of nirvana. For a lot of others though, it just turns them off to the whole scene. There is another way! In fact, there are lots of other ways to practice BDSM. Despite what you read, despite what some Domme or submissive may have told you on some internet message board somewhere, there is not one “true” way to be a submissive or even a Dominant for that matter. Some Mistresses like to play a much more sensual kind of game. Now, Ms. Delia can go either way – Hard Core or sensual – but let’s talk about sensual domination. Being a Sensual Domme is fun! There’s nothing wrong with either of us laughing during a scene. I could be laughing at your pathetically small penis, the panties you are wearing or just how crazy and desperate my teasing and denial of your throbbing hard cock is making you. When I call you a slut, a whore or my bitch, it’s a term of endearment, one which you are proud and happy to take. Sensual domination can be a very relaxed tease and denial session, a dress-up scene for one of my sissy sluts, or a verbal humiliation scene. In these scenes you feel more relaxed and sexual. CFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male – are excellent sensual domination scenes. Having a naked sub before me, exposed and vulnerable, where I can see every effect of just what I’m doing to him is very powerful. Add to that the humiliation of his being naked, while I am still dressed, and thinking about the thoughts running through his head as he can only imagine what I look like under all those clothes makes my panties damp. Pain play is usually in the realm of Hard Core Domination, but impact play, nipple play or CBT can be part of a sensual play session. Over-the-knee spankings CAN be very sensual, and if you like to have your ass warmed and reddened, that can be part of our scene. Imagine me taking you over my knee, administering a slow spanking, all while I speak softly to you and tell you how proud I am of you. Or pinching and rubbing your nipples while I slowly stroke your cock and bring you to edge after edge. Just remember, BDSM can be anything you want it to be! So, if you want your domination sensual, give a Mistress who specializes in sensual domination a call Would you like to be teased and sensually dominated by a group of Mistresses? Check out www.passthepenis.com 
Harper
Email me at Harper@enchantrixempire.com
What Is Sensual Domination?
Sensual Domination and BDSM
CFNM and Sensual Domination
Impact Play, Nipple Play, and CBT
