Daphne
Toll Free Number: 800-730-9408
Email me at Daphne@EnchantrixEmpire.com
Many have asked what the difference is between a sensuous and a strict Mistress. Here are a couple of examples of each. As with everything in fetishes and kink, these are extreme examples. And yes, some Mistresses can do both sensual and strict, depending on what the caller wants.
Sensuous: A Mistress who tends to coo as she talks to you, reminding you gently of your place on the hierarchy of men and women. One who tends to you gently, yet is able to nudge you in the direction she wants you to go.
Strict: This Mistress wields command over her submissives. She has a direct and clear mission to dominate you without any of the fluff of taking her time or fussing over your feelings.
These are the general differences between a sensuous and strict Mistress.
Sensual Mistress Right Here
I could never be a domineering Mistress. I am too tender-hearted. I care about your feelings and your needs and desires. I want you to have your needs met... and in a gentle and kind way.
Not that I can't be somewhat bossy with you.
"Get down on your knees, boy, and kiss those toes for me. Show me how much you want to serve a Mistress."
Or
"You want my dick, don't you? Tell me how badly you want it. Beg for it like a lawyer pleading his case. Convince me that you deserve to be fucked by a woman."
Cuddling Does Not Mean Coddling
While I might be feline-like at times, I also understand the balance between being sweet and being saccharine. I am the former, never the latter.
I will put you through your paces, but with a feather instead of a whip.
Well, unless you want a whip, then I can be deliciously Sadistic, rubbing your ass gently between flogger throws. As you lie there and take the pain, you will feel cared for, not reviled. You will not worry that I am angry or disturbed by you or your behavior. These lashes are caresses of caring and while they might leave marks, I want you to enjoy every single one of them.
Then, after the Scene, I offer wonderful aftercare.
Your Sensual Mistress
I would love to be your sensual Mistress. Let me know how I can best care for you during our time together and we can certainly have some fun... and I promise I won't yell at you.
What Is Sensual Domination?
by Ms. Delia of www.sensual-domination.com
Let’s talk a bit about sensual domination is and what it means.
You may have a pre-conceived notion of what BDSM, or D/s is all about. No doubt that idea of what a “true” Femdom scene is all about has been colored by things you have read or porn you have watched. Perhaps your only exposure to Female Domination has been the whip wielding, leather wearing, stiletto boot stomping Domina.
She yells and calls you pathetic and worthless, and any small misstep you make brings instant punishment. She never smiles, and might even approach the whole scene in a very clinical, distant sort of way.
That’s what I call Hard Core Domination, and for some submissives, this is their idea of nirvana. For a lot of others though, it just turns them off to the whole scene.
There is another way!
Sensual Domination and BDSM
In fact, there are lots of other ways to practice BDSM. Despite what you read, despite what some Domme or submissive may have told you on some internet message board somewhere, there is not one “true” way to be a submissive or even a Dominant for that matter. Some Mistresses like to play a much more sensual kind of game. Now, Ms. Delia can go either way – Hard Core or sensual – but let’s talk about sensual domination.
Being a Sensual Domme is fun! There’s nothing wrong with either of us laughing during a scene. I could be laughing at your pathetically small penis, the panties you are wearing or just how crazy and desperate my teasing and denial of your throbbing hard cock is making you.
When I call you a slut, a whore or my bitch, it’s a term of endearment, one which you are proud and happy to take. Sensual domination can be a very relaxed tease and denial session, a dress-up scene for one of my sissy sluts, or a verbal humiliation scene. In these scenes you feel more relaxed and sexual.
CFNM and Sensual Domination
CFNM – Clothed Female, Naked Male – are excellent sensual domination scenes. Having a naked sub before me, exposed and vulnerable, where I can see every effect of just what I’m doing to him is very powerful. Add to that the humiliation of his being naked, while I am still dressed, and thinking about the thoughts running through his head as he can only imagine what I look like under all those clothes makes my panties damp.
Impact Play, Nipple Play, and CBT
Pain play is usually in the realm of Hard Core Domination, but impact play, nipple play or CBT can be part of a sensual play session. Over-the-knee spankings CAN be very sensual, and if you like to have your ass warmed and reddened, that can be part of our scene.
Imagine me taking you over my knee, administering a slow spanking, all while I speak softly to you and tell you how proud I am of you. Or pinching and rubbing your nipples while I slowly stroke your cock and bring you to edge after edge.
Just remember, BDSM can be anything you want it to be! So, if you want your domination sensual, give a Mistress who specializes in sensual domination a call.
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