Strap-On Submission

by Ms. Ryan of www.sensual-domination.com

Have you ever tried strap-on submission? Every man (and woman) who is submissive expresses his (or her) submission to a dominant differently. That is both normal and to be expected; since all people are different, their approaches to D/s relationships would naturally be different as well.

As people go on to discover more about their submissive sides, they begin to gravitate toward things that they enjoy. These things usually tend to be activities that make them feel their submission to their Mistresses more acutely. Some may find themselves very much into body worship, for example, or being cuckolded. The more closely the interests of both Mistress and sub match up, the happier the relationship between the two of them will be.

I am lucky in that respect. My subs and I are very well-matched because we all have similar, if not completely identical, interests. And one of the interests that all of us share is a mutual love for strap on play.

Discover the Pleasure of Strap-on Submission

Strap on sex is, honestly, very pleasurable for everyone involved. Those who are on the receiving end get the lovely and unique sensation of having a thick piece of silicone shaped specifically to give them the most pleasure inside them. And then there’s me, on the giving end. I get the rush of power I always feel at taking control of another person, along with a little extra from knowing how easily I can take the person on the receiving end apart. It’s not exactly unpleasant physically, either.

But there is definitely more to it than the physicality of the act itself (although that part is certainly nice). All of my subs have told me that strap on play puts them in a more submissive frame of mind than anything else we do together. It puts me in an extremely dominant mindset as well, and I thought I would explore some of the reasons why that is.

For starters, when I engage in strap on play, it’s usually customary for my sub to get down on his (or her) knees before me to suck on my silicone cock first and foremost. Since kneeling is a position of submission (and towering above a kneeling person is a position of dominance), our respective roles are reinforced right off the bat, ensuring that we are both reminded of our roles in the relationship.

Humiliation Can Enhance Strap-On Pleasure

Secondly, there is the penetration aspect. Penetration, whether one likes it or not, has a certain connotation. The one who is doing the penetrating is viewed as dominant, while the one being penetrated is viewed as the passive, submissive partner. This is one reason that some men find strap on sex somewhat humiliating, although I suspect the humiliation enhances their pleasure as well.

And, finally, even the physical side provides a psychological aspect. When a sub is in the throes of pleasure in the way that strap on sex often leads to (especially in men, what with the prostate and such), he becomes completely stripped of his defenses. When he’s experiencing that much pleasure, he can’t possibly manage to do anything besides lie back and enjoy it and perhaps make some interesting sounds. He can’t hide himself from me at all. He is completely open to me in more ways than one, and that vulnerability reminds him just how helpless and submissive he is in my hands.

I’m sure there are many other reasons that strap on sex makes men feel so submissive (and me feel so dominant). Can you come up with any of your own for me? Give one of our Sensual Domination Mistresses a call, today!