Tease And Denial And Guided Masturbation

Often, you’ll find the terms guided masturbation and tease and denial used almost interchangeably. Have you ever wondered why? Well, here at Sensual Domination, we’ll be glad to tell you!

The truth is, using the two terms as interchangeable for one another isn’t exactly accurate usage. Let’s look at the definitions of the two things to find out why.

Guided masturbation is a type of masturbation where the person who’s masturbating follows a set of specific instructions that address how, when, how long, how fast, and how hard to masturbate. It is usually performed with the help of a Masturbatrix.

Tease and denial, on the other hand, is pretty much what it sounds like. It involves lots of teasing, which builds up anticipation, and denial of orgasm, be it long-term denial or just a short-term denial during one teasing session that heightens the intensity of the eventual orgasm. Tease and denial may be performed by oneself, though, like guided masturbation, it usually involves the assistance of a Mistress.

Why Guided Masturbation And Tease And Denial Are Intertwined

Now that we’ve determined that guided masturbation and tease and denial are two separate entities, now we’re going to attack the question of why people conflate the two. We think it’s because guided masturbation can’t really exist without tease and denial, though the reverse is not necessarily true. Sure, you can have a guided masturbation session that takes you straight from zero to orgasm, but that’s not going to be very fulfilling.

Thus, in order to have a good guided masturbation session, it’s necessary for your phone sex Mistress to mix in some tease and denial to keep things exciting!

A true Femdom Mistress knows this without question. She understands what submissives need when it comes to the various methods of cock control. She also realizes that what a sub wants and what he needs are two different things, and she acts accordingly.

How Tease And Denial Games Work

So how does tease and denial enhance guided masturbation? Look at it this way. Guided masturbation is like the cake, and tease and denial is like the icing. Sure, the cake is good by itself, but it’s the icing that makes it a real treat.

Like anything worth doing, guided masturbation phone sex takes time. A Mistress has to set the stage for what’s going to happen and slowly build up the tempo of the fantasy. Her guided masturbation instructions will most likely start off slowly and simply. As you adjust to what she’s telling you and become more adept at obeying her commands, the stroking directions will likely get more complex.

Then, right as you feel that you’re about to shoot your load for her…she tells you to stop! It’ll probably be hard for you to stop, but you know that to be a good submissive, you must obey your Mistress’s instructions. Oh, no! Denied!

Don’t worry. It (probably) won’t last forever. Your Mistress will give you enough time to come down off your near-orgasmic high, then begin the stroking instructions anew. Of course, she won’t do this just once. She won’t even just do it twice or thrice. She may do it five or ten or even fifteen times!

But, you see, she knows what you don’t yet realize. The more edging you do, the better your orgasm will be! (Edging is when your Mistress brings you very, very close to orgasm–to the “edge,” so to speak–and then stops all stimulation, only to start it up again once you’ve calmed down a bit.)

Once you’ve gone through all this several times, she may decide to have mercy on you and let you cum, like you’ve no doubt been begging her to do for quite some time. On the other hand, she may decide to make you suffer more for her. This is especially true if you’re playing with a strict Mistress. She may even feel really sadistic and pass you along to her other Femdom friends for an extreme cockteasing game of Pass The Penis!

However, all things do eventually come to an end, and this is true for your guided masturbation session as well. Your Mistress will finally decide that you’ve had enough and let you cum. At that point, you’ll thank her for making you hold out for so long because the orgasm you have will be unlike any other you’ve ever felt before.

As you can see now, you may have tease and denial without guided masturbation, but you’ll surely never have a good guided masturbation session without tease and denial!

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